Behind Bars We Still Find Joy By Felicia & Christopher







Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of our family, friends, and those of you that steadfastly read our weekly posts. We appreciate your dedication and time allowing us to tell our stories, and wish you abundance, blessings and happiness as we walk into 2023. No matter how difficult 2022 was, if you’re reading this God’s still with you.
If you can, we’d like you to listen to the song “Unfinished” by Mandisa, and pause for a moment to take in these beautiful lyrics. God will never leave or forsake you. Even in the darkest moments of life, he is always there. It’s easy to lose sight of this.
(Christopher): Life behind bars is difficult. It’s easy to forget that despite how bad we think we have it, there’s always someone worse off. For me, the holidays bring that into focus. I never lose sight of the good in my life. The holidays highlight the good things that we do for one another that we often miss at other times of the year.
(Felicia): I work at commissary here at Ohio Reformatory for Women. Currently creeping up on the 5 year mark of my sentence leaving me 12 to go.
We had a holiday party funded by our staff that manages commissary. She secured everything for us. We then prepared our meal and dessert, this on top of taking the time to shut down operations to allow us the free time to hang out and unwind.
(Christopher): I work with the dogs here and this year I gathered a few men together and prepared a holiday meal. Some were men in the program, others were men I respect and consider friends.
(Felicia): 3 other ladies and I stayed on an out count and prepared the meal. There was stuffing log, mac and cheese; strawberry cheesecake, lemon cheesecake, chocolate cheesecake, along with sausage bites and cheese and crackers.
Our boss made an announcement thanking us for our hard work. She reminded us how everyone on the compound needs and relies upon us. She thanked us for being there and doing our part in making commissary operate.
(Christopher): My bunkie and I prepared two dozen 6″ tortilla shell pepperoni and chicken pizzas. Delicious! Using the microwaves I fried the shells to a crispness, each having been coated in a thin layer of olive oil first, and my bunkie prepared and placed the toppings.
We put sodas on ice and set up place settings at 2 tables in the dayroom. Anticipation growing the sweet aroma of pizza filling the unit.
(Felicia): I worked a number of jobs at home. No matter how hard I worked, never once was I thanked or recognized for a job well done. And yet, here in prison, a place you would never imagine there could be good, it has completely changed my life and outlook on mankind.
I work with 16 other ladies. Sitting there taking in their smiles and laughter, reminded me that things could always be worse. That even in the toughest situations, if we stick together everything will be okay.
I am surrounded by love and comfort. And I’m looking forward to spending 2023 with these women that I’ve grown to call my friends.
(Christopher): While we ate, 5 men all in the same situation of incarceration but each with their own personal struggles, I thought about how similar we all are.
All of us miss our families. While it’s tough for me I never lose sight that it’s even tougher for them. These men have children and families of their own. No matter how difficult life seems, I am thankful for the one I have. And in this evening I laughed and carried on with men who also, if not but for 30 minutes, forgot that they were in prison.
(Felicia): I am thankful that another year down is another year closer to being home with my fiancee Christopher, and my children. I love you all and hope we stick together and maneuver our way through this time and distance.
(Christopher): I love you too, Felicia. One day at a time.
From the both of us, Happy New Year to all!!

*Lettersfromchristopher is an advocacy effort highlighting incarceration in the United States.
Read more posts from this blog in the book “Behind The Wall: A Prisoner’s Journal” By Christopher Monihan. Available on Amazon in paperback and eBook.

4 thoughts on “Behind Bars We Still Find Joy By Felicia & Christopher

  1. Anita Gooch

    Thank you Felicia & Christopher for sharing your inner lives and thoughts each newsletter, it is quite insightful for me personally to understand how prison life can be.
    I have a son serving a life sentence which I find difficult to accept. The main Joy I can find in this is his eyes and heart was opened to his true spiritual condition as a sinner, he totally surrendered his life to the Lordship of his now Saviour Jesus Christ! I still marvel at God’s grace and mercy in our daily lives.
    He now has a ministry serving his Lord in the confines of a new prison life he finds himself. Pray for him & his family.
    Thank you. A.M

  2. That is a perfect song for the New Year! Thanks for sharing it… Just want to remind you that we do think of you and pray for you, even when you don’t hear from us. Proud of you two choosing to see the positive things in this long journey; I know that isn’t always easy (and there are times when God says to lament!), but I try to remind myself “there is always something to be thankful for.” Much love to you both! <3

  3. Faster Is Better

    Good song! I’m looking forward to your posts in 2023, you guys hang in there. You’ll make it through.🙂💖

  4. jaymalone01

    Happy New Year Felicia & Christopher! Thank you for the song and the positive energy and for shining a lifting light into the world. God bless you both.🙏

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